Everyone is looking for a way to save time, money and are asking, what's in it for me? When you go to the store you normally look at the item you need or want and then look at the different brands along with price. What makes your decision? Is it that your item has a fun color, cool mechanism that will speed up your cleaning process or cooking time or simply cheaper than the other one?
After the party, I was thinking about how she hardly had to work for the sale. Have you ever thought about what you sell? Maybe you are a caterer and you have a customer coming in for their wedding. They are asking you about prices and what you all have to offer. As you go on and answer their questions, do you tell them why they should hire you? What benefit do they get if they hire you and not the guy across the street? Maybe it is something as simple as including the linens and table settings, saving them the time and money from having to rent them, pick them up, drop them off at the reception site and so on.
The next time you are meeting with a client/customer, remember that there are two parts to your product, its features and its benefits. To have your customer/client get excited about your product, they need to see both.
